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“Get Laid Dude” – How Chasing Tail Causes Depression
Sex is important. At least that is what our society is saying “Get laid dude”. They say that because they need more people to pay the taxes. Think about it, with an overpopulation of the world it is absolutely ludicrous to want more people in the world. They just need more taxes, that’s why they are telling you that.

Women tell you to “get laid loser”, guess why they say it? First, because it is reinforced by our society and women listen to what our society is saying like obedient slaves because they can not think for themselves & because they want their easy lives to continue.

They want sex without doing anything for it, they like money for doing nothing for it. If everyone had that mindset we would still live in caves, thank god that he created men.

With the rise of pickup  “You need to get laid because you ain’t a man” the number of men with depression will steadily increase.

With an abundance of men (secure society, no wars) not everyone can have a woman. And what will happen when a sad and lonely man wants to try to get a woman?

Nothing, he will become depressed because he is not getting it, he also does not know what the problem is (some then find their way to pickup artists who lay 1 out of 100 women and call themselves pros) and becomes prey to beta males.

It is a lack of purpose, note that and work on it. I am not gonna write what a purpose is here, I have done that multiple times already, please read this article for that.

With that said, let’s talk about the 20 reasons why the need to have sex on a regular basis will result in crippling depression.

The 20 Reasons Why Chasing Tail Causes Depression

1. Time
You waste your time chasing women. What do you actually accomplish if you chase women and have sex? Sex by itself is meaningless, the only meaning it has is to make babies.

You don’t invest into your future, you will be at the same point that you are right now, just with a woman or without one. 

Instead, imagine what you could have achieved if you had chased your goals for a year instead of chasing pussy. Imagine that you go out 3 hours per day to practice day-game, now change that with 3 additional hours of work, or at the gym or learning…

2. You Lose Money
When you chase women you go to restaurants, cinemas, or pay for some other stupid activity just to meet women.

And when you do that every day you will not have money for future investments like a car, a house, business investments, repairs, clothing, a new computer to work and many other important things. If you want to reduce the amount of money that you lose chasing tail then simply pay a hooker, they are good at what they do & they are clean.

3. Constant Rejection
When you approach women on a daily basis you will become insensitive to it. But till then you will just be affected by it, and even if you become insensitive to it, that does not improve your success rate as you do not improve yourself, you are still the same man you were before, just with added thirst.

And even if you have sex on a constant basis, you think that other men or women care about that? They are just jealous, which will create enemies, and that is no benefit. Plus it does not make your life better, trust me, if pickup artists would be happy with what they do, you would still hear news about “Mystery & Style”. 

4. You Will Only Feel Good When You Have Sex
Because having sex is your priority you will only feel good when you have sex, it is that simple. This is why many men who have a lot of sex with a different woman on a constant basis feel empty afterwards. They have nothing else going on in their life.

5. You Can Not Force Women to Have Sex With You
Sex is your priority, but you can not just have sex with any women you want, you will have to work or pay for it. That will waste your time and your money + you are dependent on women. And they talk about not pedestalizing women… hilarious.

6. Women are Highly Emotional Beings
What does that mean? It means that women are irrational (affiliate link). They will cause drama just because and you can not argue your way out of it, they will ruin your life if you let them. And because women are your priority you will deal with drama all the time.

7. You Get in Contact With Average People
Women have nothing to offer, that is not sexist, that is just a reality. Nowadays most women can not cook anymore. They are so empowered and worshiped that they don’t need to improve themselves, their egos are inflated and not in touch with reality.

But you don’t only meet women on the way, you will also get in contact with jerks, idiots, drunkards and people who have nothing going on in their life. Successful people don’t hang out in clubs or bars, they manage them from their home or from the office.

8. You Will Feel Empty After You Have Sex
If your highest priority is to have sex, then what will you do after you have sex? Nothing else will really matter to you as you have already accomplished the highest goal. And besides that you will feel drained after you ejaculate, it takes a lot more willpower to start new things afterwards. This is why I avoid having sex in the morning.

9. Dating Apps are Cancer
You will not meet new women there as they receive 100 messages per day, yes, even the fat ones. Their egos are even more inflated than egos of hot women outside. I mean, what will you get if you succeed?

You will have sex with a woman that already inhaled cock who probably also has STD’s who doesn’t value men. How could she value men anyway if she gets too many? From an economical view: The higher the supply the lower the price.

10. You Start Relationships With These Women
Starting relationships with women that you met on dating apps or women from clubs, bars or parties will end badly. Why? Because they are easy to get, they are also highly masculine and they are not loyal, even when all those women jokingly say “I am not like other women”.

11. You Neglect Yourself
When you make women your priority then you simply neglect yourself. You should always be your highest priority. If you are not making yourself your highest priority then you are not valuing the gift of life, you are basically living in a body that you don’t appreciate.

How can you take care of yourself if you chase women 24/7?. Don’t listen to pickup artists who say it takes an hour max. 1 Women alone will demand a lot of time from you with phone calls, text messages, dates, activities before you have sex etc. Ignore all of that before and you will not have sex. God these pickup faggots piss me off.

12. You Will Catch STDs
Women that have no problem to taste different cock every month or week will have STDs. Gonorrhea is actually on the rise again as it is getting immune to most antibiotics even tho people use condoms, that should tell you a lot about women and the guys they are sleeping with. Don’t let idiots dictate your life.

13. You Can Catch Aids or Herpes
If you catch aids, then have a nice rest of your life, if you catch herpes, you will have to find a woman that also has herpes, otherwise, I hope you better learned from that. You actually have luck, because sex is not important.

14. You Can End up in Jail
False rape accusations, fighting, theft and all other crimes happen around women and poor people. Coincidence? Nope, emotional & stupid people fill the lack of purpose with stupid shit to feel alive. Should you end up in jail then try to see it as a learning experience, at least, this is what I did, always try to find the silver lining of all bad things.

15. You Can Also End up in Hospital
Fighting, burnouts, and depression often happen because of women. Coincidence? Hahaha!

16. It Can Ruin Your Reputation
What will happen after a false rape accusation? Just watch what happens to the famous men that are accused by that. They will never be hired again, they lose their jobs, their neighbors avoid them, their wives & girlfriends leave them and their family does not believe them either.

17. It Can Ruin Your Life
See Reason 16. If a false rape accusation hits you, then you are better not famous or even just popular. But that is not everything, Herpes and Aids will ruin your life too, and if that is not enough then women will do the rest.

18. Dating Coaches & Pickup Artists Are Scammers
Don’t call yourself a pro after having sex with 1 woman after talking to 100 of them, hilarious. But these are really the pros in that scene. If you look at the other nobodies, they don’t even have live videos of them successfully getting a woman inside their house.

19. You Will be Highly Disappointed
If you do everything for women you will be highly disappointed as women live in the moment. If they feel their vaginas tingling they will go on Tinder. If they feel like cheating they will fuck the next idiot, it is that simple my friend.

20. You Reduce Yourself To Your Penis
You are just another dick to women, if you make women your priority then you don’t improve your life and your own worth, you will be at the same point you are today (if you luckily dodge all the 19 reasons above).

Combine all these reasons and your life is ruined, just look at all the famous pickup artists, they stay for 1 or 5 years max and then they switch jobs or you don’t hear from them anymore. I am 100% sure at least 10 of the above reasons happened to them.

The Manosphere needs to get rid of Pickup and it needs to be removed from the Redpill too as the people practicing this are just sheep’s walking to slaughter, even more so than the average person is. Women are fucking dangerous. Think that is funny? You won’t laugh anymore then the above reasons happen to you, and you will if you get caught up in their games.

The most important men in our history didn’t give a fuck about women, they had better things to do. For example inventing new things like electricity, leading kingdoms, or fighting for their country.

They are also busy building businesses, clubs, Sports teams, and living for causes, for example educating people with the truth ala Mike Cernovich. These people are leaders and they attract women through the way they live. Pickup artists are just boring dicks with nothing to offer than short excitement.

Leaders have money, status, ambition, willpower, discipline and they can provide for people. Despite that, they are also highly masculine and dominant.

If you want to fix your depression you need to take care of yourself and work on the root causes, the most important one is a purpose. Remember: Men that need women to feel happy try to avoid reality, they are not happy with their life and want a woman to lean on.

If you have depression then you must take a look at my anti-depression coaching to get rid of your depression forever.

About the Post Author 
Philip Braselmann was born 1990 in Germany and suffered from depression for 12 years after being diagnosed with essential tremor. He slowly learned to cope with it and went the normal route that every man walks. After his girlfriend cheated he was depressed again and decided that he is going to live a good life. It took Philip another year to realize that masculinity was the answer to getting rid of his depression. He loves Modafinil, working out and building his Business.

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  1. Steven July 17, 2017 at 21:56

    Hi Phil, first of all I want to thank you for your amazing work. I started to read and follow your blog after I discovered it some 4 months ago. Your articles (or view shared in them) is amazing. All men should read them! 🙂 I think I´m doing quite well in my life, but reading your articles just motivates me even more and keeps me motivated. Just summarize it – keep going and doing your amazing and important work! Good luck!

    • Philip Braselmann July 18, 2017 at 03:20

      Thank you Steven, that sounds really good!
      I am glad my blog motivates you so much 🙂

  2. Ace-face July 16, 2017 at 05:12

    Nice article, recently i started asking two little question to women, in order to figure out what they really can offer to men. They usually answer companionship and sex, if i receive this anwer, i next the chick, as far as i can cover those two issues with a dog and a whore. What i want to say is that women in 2017 ave no shit to offer to men, the only reason i find for male thirst is indoctrination for TV, MSM and another blue pill shit.

    • Philip Braselmann July 16, 2017 at 05:48

      That’s how it is mate, good job for keeping your thirst in check and focusing on what is important.

  3. Peter July 11, 2017 at 19:56

    If all a human being has to offer another is their genitals then they are not a very good person at all.
    For a civilisation to thrive it needs strong and stable marriages. With the decrease of chastity and increase of mega-sluts we are seeing destroyed families as no one can keep their legs closed any longer.

    • Philip Braselmann July 12, 2017 at 03:16

      That is sadly how it is, loss of control everywhere.

    • Steeveau July 18, 2017 at 23:21

      It wouldn’t be so bad if the nanny-state didn’t force everyone else to sponsor this madness

      • Philip Braselmann July 19, 2017 at 03:39

        Agree, the white effeminate man has to compete with the masculine black African now. It’s funny to see how they fight over vagina.
        Black man with white woman

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